It is human nature as in WE want to be liked and accepted. However, this often leads to people worrying too much about what others are thinking about them. It is obsessive and can ruin your life. This kind of excessive worrying can have a negative effect on your life. It can be so debilitating that it interferes with your ability to feel at ease with yourself and around others.
One thing for sure is that do not let them prevent you from living your life. It is your life, so live to the fullest!
It is None Of Their Business
Well yes it is true. It is your life and it’s not their life, so why should it become their business. People are entitled to think whatever they want and that include you. What people think (mostly comment) of you cannot change who you are or what you become. Don’t back away and hide.
This is your life and in reality, it is you who need to decide which road to choose. Nobody will ever be as invested in your life as you. You are the only one know what is best for you, and that entails learning from your own choices. Unless, you are lazy and simply watch others getting better each day.
The only way you will ever truly learn is through making your own decisions, taking full responsibility for them. If you do fail, at least you can learn from it wholeheartedly, as opposed to blaming somebody else.
You have Your Own Road
Remember the big picture, what is right for someone maybe completely wrong for you. It is important to recognize that someone’s opinion is often based on what they would do. Is this will be a problem? Why yes it is.
What is best for somebody else, can be the worst thing for you. What one person considers garbage can be another person’s treasure.
You only have one life to live, you are not a cat. So why would you spend every precious time of yours to be worry about other people’s opinions? Do whatever you want, be whoever you want. Go for it!
You’re not going to see these people after you’re dead. You probably won’t even see them in a year from now. Live your life without worrying about other people’s thoughts and opinion, and you will live your life to the maximum.
We Are Constantly Changing
It is true, isn’t it? One minute want ice cream, and then suddenly craving for cookies. People’s thought change on regular basis just like we craving for something. A philosopher stated that we are in a constant state of flux which mean that we cannot say we have one specific ‘self’ or fixed ‘personality’. People will give different advice or thoughts based on their emotion and regular basis.
That means even if somebody (It can be your friend or your co-worker) does think badly of you at the moment, there is a good chance they will think differently in the near future. So, people’s thoughts don’t really matter.
People generally don’t think outside themselves a great deal of time. It is very sad but yes it is a simple truth that the average person filters their world through their ego. They can only think of me, myself and I.
It is impossible to please everybody and life is simply too short. If you are constantly worried about what other people think, you will never get to where you need to go in life. You are going to have to do things that don’t always meet people’s standards.
The weight of other’s thought can become a burden for you. It can inhibit you from living your life, because your entire being (your personality, your thoughts, your actions) are controlled by an idealized standard of what people want to see.
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